“Live up to the time, the creation of non-stop, this article is participating in 2021 year-end summary essay competition”
2021 has completed several major events in life, and the year has come to an end. The annual ring of life has increased in the endless choices…
Drift from place to place
In March, AFTER three years of working in Shenzhen, I came back to wuhan, the capital city of my own, and my restless mood has calmed down a bit.
Wuhan — Hangzhou
Recall oneself after graduation a few years of running around, actually took many detours. When I was in college, there were two directions of Java and.NET at the back end. At that time, the school taught.NET to develop Web projects by dragging controls. Compared with Java JSP, I felt.NET was simpler, and it seemed that I could complete the development of Web applications without knowing a lot of theoretical knowledge. When I looked for a job, I realized that the employment situation in.NET was very different from that in Java.
I still remember my junior year, when I saw that everyone was looking for a job, I felt pressure and was not confident about my ability, so I went to some small companies in Wuhan for internship, wasting the good school recruitment time. When I finally woke up, it was late November, and the school recruitment was coming to an end. I have been running around wuhan universities, and there are few. Net recruiting positions. Finally, there was no choice of choice, went to a chess and card game company in Hangzhou, his girlfriend stayed in Wuhan.
Hangzhou — Shenzhen
During the one year in Hangzhou, I was always impetuous and wanted to do something, but I ran into a wall like a headless fly. In Hangzhou, I did not find a sense of achievement, and I had a long-distance relationship with my girlfriend, and there was no college classmate in Hangzhou, so I felt my failure. When I worked in Hangzhou for a year, I left hangzhou for the reason of returning to Wuhan to buy a house. In fact, I did buy a small apartment in the far city of Wuhan. After buying a house, I looked at the salary level of Wuhan.net and my mortgage, feeling wuhan would be under great pressure, so I decided to go to Shenzhen, where there are many college students.
Shenzhen — Wuhan
First, I settled down with my classmates in Shenzhen and saw that there were a little more jobs in Shenzhen. Net than in Wuhan. In half a month, I found a job that could pay the rent and mortgage. My girlfriend gave up her stable job in a state-owned enterprise in Wuhan and came to Shenzhen to work with me because she was worried about the contradiction of long-distance relationship. Seeing all the students in Shenzhen discussing their salary and offer from big factory, I decided to switch to Java with the encouragement of my girlfriend. After one or two months of brushing the interview questions on the bus to and from work, my efforts paid off and I landed a Java job at a third-tier Internet company in Shenzhen. I worked in this company until March this year, and under various circumstances, I also got the “position” of development team leader. The position is quoted because I have no actual authority, and I am only responsible for the allocation of several outsourcing and internal work tasks and the control of development progress. Stem two years and a half, 995 is normal, fatty liver also had, come home from work, get up in the morning, the person is in a trance state. If I had stayed for another two years, I would have been promoted to the manager position. When I left, the leader proposed a 20% increase in salary and a one-time reward of 5W for an excellent employee at the end of the year. Considering the long-term development, I could not continue to work in Shenzhen. Because in Shenzhen, there is no sense of belonging, people always like floating in the air, unable to land. And girlfriend decided to return to Wuhan to get married.
wuhan
After returning to Wuhan in March, he spent a month looking for a job. Large and small companies have also met more than 20, such as Hikvision, one of the technical face, the second project face, a lot of small and medium-sized. I still feel that the job opportunities in Wuhan are very different from those in Shenzhen, and there are not so many Internet companies to choose from. The company I am working in is a newly established R&D center in Wuhan this year. When I entered the company, I thought it was newly established. If there is a vacancy in the future, I can slowly move to the management position. Now I find that the business of the company is too simple. Basically, I just code some CURD codes. Now I have been working for more than half a year. One day, I got off work at 7:30, and when I was driving home, I found that there was no traffic jam. Compared with Shenzhen, the overall pace of life in Wuhan is still much slower.
Give me your hand
On May 3, 2021, after nearly six years of dating, we finally got married.
College Campus — Rental housing
Still remember that it was a summer morning, the day with drizzle 🌧, we rushed to the classroom to class. You hid from the rain under the eaves with anxious eyes. I passed by with an umbrella. When our eyes met, you called me and I took you to the teaching downstairs and asked if the rain hit you on the road. We have been together for more than a year, and it was the first time we had face-to-face communication. We made a good impression on each other. And by and by, you’re my girlfriend. We went to the library to study together, went to the back street to eat together, spent a good college time together.
Suddenly came the junior year, we practice in a hurry, we also flustered everywhere looking for internship work. Together, we found an 8 square meter rental room near the software park. There was only one bed, one cabinet, one desk, and even a stool. We could only sit on the bed when we went home. Now looking back, at that time we were able to get up in the morning to do lunch at noon, I was worried about the bus traffic jam, even riding a bike 10 kilometers to the company, at that time how not afraid of tired, a month 1500 internship salary, life is so delicious.
Then we went to Shenzhen together, the fast pace of life let us all irritable, a little problem can quarrel, the most fierce time a month to quarrel two or three times, each time to cold war for two or three days, now think about regret less than. Sometimes we both wonder if we made the right decision to come to Shenzhen. Shenzhen is not as beautiful as we imagined, and if we had stayed in Wuhan, our life would have been more stable.
Rented house — a den
On January 1, 2021, the car is lifted, and we are more free.
January 3, Wuhan’s new house moved in, the house is not big, but the good is a balcony, can all kinds of flowers, winter can bask in the sun ☀️, call friends to greenhouse, friends ridicule: “if I have your balcony, I want to buy 1000 pieces of sausage put this hanging”. Now living in their own nest, life is finally a little more stable.
May 3, finally married you back home. I know you are my destiny that person, you have other girls do not have the beauty and lovely, I know, miss you miss the world.
Now every day after work you can eat hot meals, and then sit on the sofa together to watch movies, and have a relaxing and relaxing day.
On December 1, applied for accumulation fund loan, feeling pressure reduced a lot of, be regretful again now, buy a house at that time why not buy a bit bigger.
hopeful
In 2021, I finished living in a new house, buying a car and getting married, which is also a great milestone in my life. Sometimes I will feel that the choice is really more important than hard work. But there is no medicine for regret in life. Even if you did not choose the best road, you may see different beautiful scenery on the fork road.
In 2022, I hope my family will be healthy and have a tiger baby. For myself, I hope I can shake off poverty, guard against arrogance and rashness, step by step, and actively strive to create a better life for my family.