After graduation, the biggest feeling of college students is that there are too many talents. When they step out of the ivory tower, they find that they have no professional skills. Anxiety and fear for the future are accompanied. “Confused” and “tangled” have become the main labels of college students. Students with excellent grades are confused about whether to pursue an academic career. Students majoring in accounting are confused if they don’t want to do accounting. Engineering students, tired of cold equipment and exploding code, are confused about their future. People with average ability will be uncertain whether they should struggle in big cities for several years; God will be slim in the end that way is to let their peak of the impasse. The pressure of society makes all students out of breath and have to rack their brains every day to think where the future lies.
Why are we always lost? Because of lack of information and lack of experience, I don’t know which field I should do in the future because I can’t see the direction clearly. Because I can’t see myself clearly, I don’t know what I like and what I’m good at. Because I can’t see the path clearly, it is still difficult to design a reasonable path to realize my passion even though I know it. The Internet has greatly expanded our horizons, letting us see how the rich live, how the students with excellent grades create brilliant, and how the professionals get multiple offers… But want too much, have too little, often by the time you realize it is too late. Lack of ability, so that all dreams have become a dream, there is no chance to become reality.
There are two kinds of people in the world: those who are determined to finish what they start, and those who are aimless and give up halfway. Two different choices can lead to two very different lives. A good goal not only gives direction on an intellectual level, but also gives power on an emotional level. We call these goals an end postcard. It is a warm, pictorial, heart-to-heart vision. The most important thing to get out of confusion is to think less and do more. Dissatisfaction with the status quo and the basis of shame is out of the confusion of his own mediocrity, but really want to let oneself live more and more transparent clear, more and more aware of their love, still need to constantly try to communicate, to experience, go to trial and error, use every experience to build your skills matrix, so as to make your life a lot.
Everyone’s IQ and EQ are not too bad, and excellent seniors communicate, to master skills, do not try too hard, do not suddenly put forward a lot of questions for each other to answer, make in a comfortable way to communicate what you want. Life on the road to have a few years older than you for their guidance to steal joy. Because most of the time we are just repeating the mistakes of our predecessors, although some people say that the age of 20 is used to toss about, youth is constantly making mistakes. However, some mistakes do not need us to practice, more do not need to fall black and blue to wake up.
Second, cultivate interests and hobbies, belong to their own circle many confused friends feel that they can not find a close friend; In fact, people’s communication depends more on their psychological age. Maybe because you think beyond your peers, you need to contact some senior teachers who are several years older than you, or get to know more people who are similar to your psychological age through participating in some social activities. Most of the time, what is your circle of friends, you is what kind of basic, if you want to achieve a long-term goals or implement a career planning, must try to join a circle, BBS, WeChat group, watercress group, student organization, all kinds of party on a regular basis is very typical of circle, if you can be a good fit in, show that you have a lot of potential in this direction, If you find that you can’t fit in as hard as you try, then you really don’t fit in.
Ask yourself, what kind of person do you want to be? When looking for a direction for yourself, you should never just rely on the most glamorous side of the industry to decide whether to do it or not. Look at your industry or what you want to be like, and see what they’re doing every day. The power of an example is endless, and the most important thing is that it can give us a direction. Draw strength from example, imitate example is actually a shortcut to effort. At all times, know what your bottom line is, how long you can afford to pay less, whether getting to work on time is important to you, how long you can travel on business trips, and how you can handle being ignored at work. Know your bottom line before you love it.
Confusion is the normal life, who is not confused youth, confusion is not terrible, direction is not terrible, terrible is their own compromise and give up content with the status quo. Enrich yourself and move forward