The anxiety of today’s thirties is multifaceted. Traditionally, you have to get married and raise children by the age of 30, or if you haven’t reached the high ground in your career, you don’t have time. But by the time I was 30, I realized that’s not how it was defined. What other people say and what I live are two different things.
It doesn’t matter if we don’t stand at 30, we still stand at 40. The so-called “standing” should start from within, recognize and reconcile with ourselves, and be able to put down anything. If you don’t like yourself, it’s probably hard to get anything done.”
“Thirty” is an imaginary number, not a dividing line or a deadline. No one says what you have to do before you turn 30. After that, it’s too late. Many examples show that we can not judge a person’s success by age and time.
Why are there thirty and directional positions in ideas
The age of 30 is the time when people become mature from youth. Personally, I agree. As a person becomes mature, it means that he has shouldered more responsibilities. This responsibility has to do with my family, society and myself. Only by recognizing this point can we call it “foothold”.
Mature, based on the earlier the better?
To this question, I think we can discuss it from two aspects. First, I always believe that one should do the things one should do at his age. One should play in childhood and one should venture out at the age of 20. Secondly, it also varies from person to person. Some people have to take on heavy responsibilities that are not appropriate for their age, while others pursue challenges beyond their age. There is no good or bad.
The true heart is the true portrayal of life
It is also unrealistic to say that you are completely undisturbed by the words of the outside world, and that you do not care about the thoughts and feelings of others. But what we need to do is to master a degree, first ask yourself whether you like, do not want to, this is completely possible.
To be at peace with oneself is also a noble conception
Fan Deng said, to be reconciled with God is to be reconciled with oneself, and this is the state that can be achieved when “fifty and know the destiny of heaven”. It means that you can be detached from nature, from the world and from your heart. It may not simply be “I’ve put it down”, or you may never really pick it up