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Since it is a mid-year summary, must not escape to go back to the past. In the process of backdating, one by one you may have forgotten the things or people, one by one re-emerge in your mind, there are sad and happy. Here and there. Very call a person’s thoughts myriad, regrets sadly.

Today, is my work just three years, I want to take advantage of this year to summarize, to a three-year summary.

First stop – Ctrip

The first summary, I want to leave to work, after all, it makes me grow, learn, and meet a lot of unforgettable people.

After graduating from university in 18 years, I came out to find a job and sent out my resume. At that time, I applied to Tencent and Ctrip. Of course, IT was a great honor to have both of them on the face. But I finally chose ctrip. Why ctrip? Actually at that time, the stereotype in my mind, Tencent is a game company, I don’t like… (Shallow person, is me, ha ha ha). Then, Tencent offered more than 500 yuan a month more than Ctrip.

In fact, there is a simple reason, is that at that time, after graduation, I think, I am too weak. Almost nothing. So I think ctrip might be more suitable for me at that time (not that Ctrip is bad… Ha ha ha ha, don’t be).

During my two years in Ctrip, there are only two people I am most grateful to. One is the direct leader who recruited me. I’ll call him SJ here. (Now privately, I call him baby. The other one was our CTO at that time, called Lao Ni here. Why call old ni, ha ha ha, because at that time everybody so call, I also followed call.

The reason for thanking these two is simple. At the time of the interview, I had not even got my diploma. As you can imagine, I got my graduation certificate at the beginning of July, but I joined Ctrip on June 25 and became a formal employee. In fact, from my point of view, it’s a big validation for me.

Later all the way is not easy, because I just out of the society, is really the technical level of food home, ability level also food home. I remember at that time SJ also often friendly to me. For example, back then, I didn’t have the habit of taking notes. I would often ask him twice, or even three times, what he had told me. But he was very nice, and he just said to me, young man, now that we’re on the Internet, learn to use electronic notes. A bad writing is better than a good memory.

To tell you the truth, at that time, he spoke to me like that, telling the truth, I was really ashamed of myself. May change for a other leader, already spray you, do not have so much patience. After that, it almost never happened, and to this day, I still use youdao cloud notes.

Later, I had to work on a project by myself, and I could not reasonably control the schedule. At that time, I would work overtime on weekends. In fact, at that time, I could go alone, but SJ might not trust me, I almost went to work overtime, he went with me. Ensure the smooth launch of the project. To tell you the truth, from his point of view, I don’t trust me, but from my point of view, I am very grateful to him, because he accompany me to grow up, teach me to do things. I like to make friends with people who teach me how to do things. Hahaha)

Later, I gradually became familiar with business projects, and SJ gradually ignored me. In fact, she trusted me to do things. At the end, I still feel that MY skills are still very good, especially when I was disgusted by another colleague (here is a bad memory). I remember that when I had to write a project, an old employee with very poor technical ability said that you could not even write this simple, and your ability was not good. Thousands of words may be omitted here.

To tell the truth, at that time the in the mind has been stimulated, as if what she said is not wrong, I really very vegetables, ability is really not good, although at that time, she has been a moth, but I did not want to compare with her. And now I have to thank her. Since that time she insulted me a little, I almost didn’t have a double holiday. Can you imagine? In that whole half year, I didn’t have a double holiday and almost stayed in the company.

The deepest image, is once, I was knocking code, suddenly two shoulders can not move. Rigid live… Fortunately, I was young at that time, and after I went to acupuncture, I felt much better.

That half a year, it can be said that my career progress in the six months, if I graduated from zero, then six months later, I have 85. I have no hatred for the moth now, on the contrary, I am grateful to her.

Here’s a photo of the top floor of Ctrip at 4 a.m. (it feels like it’s getting light, but it’s still dark) :

Of course, there are also a lot of happy things. During the two years in Ctrip, our group went out to visit many places. The most impressive time was to Go to Thailand, which was the first time I went abroad in my life (humble, ha ha). During my week in Thailand, I saw a truly deep blue sea. Seriously, I was shocked.

Then the department was broken up and reorganized, and people left one by one. In fact, I didn’t have the happiness at that time. I told SJ several times that I missed the 18-19 years, and I felt very happy to work with you. I was very happy. But it seems that I have no power to change what has been changed. So later, I also left, Ctrip.

He taught me a lot about Ctrip. But it’s more like he teaches it than it is, like, people I know at work teach it. I have a lot of affection for him, because there are my old baby who helped me all the way out of society, as well as my friends (call your name here, ok, I believe you have received).

Stop two. – Stop B

Today is the 12th anniversary of B station. There are few friends on the seat at this moment. It’s not that they didn’t come to work, but they went to participate in the anniversary activities. Why didn’t I go? Emmm, if I go, at the moment, I can’t code word here, I don’t code word, you can’t see so affectionate words, ha ha ha ha.

Left Ctrip largely because the love for him was disappearing. Station B is here to generate electricity for love. Hahaha. I don’t know what I was thinking. Just think, that ctrip, I don’t want to stay. I just wanted a change of scenery. Then station B contacted me. Can you think of, 20 years in April b station, face me, face four rounds? Give me a break.

Later, I passed the interview successfully, so I didn’t want to see other companies, so I came to station B. At least I’m happy to be here so far. I didn’t encounter anything unhappy, unhappy people. It can also learn, accumulate and progress technically. (Another kind of comfort in another kind of environment.)

Summary of work

In fact, why am I writing this summary on the day when I am three years old?

To be honest, I’ve always had a problem with three years. Even loathing.

I remember a CTO at a unicorn telling me something like this: “I don’t care how skilled you are or how capable you are, but as long as you haven’t worked for three years, you won’t be recognized here.”

I don’t know how people felt when they read that, but all I could think was, “You’re a f * * k.” But I didn’t dare to say it to my face. Damn.

Later I looked for professional person to ask specially, why want so persistent 3 years not 3 years. The answer, after a manner of persuasion, did not move me. She says it’s called the 10,000-hour rule. It takes three years of work to satisfy 10,000 hours of work, and then the precision, the proficiency, the understanding of what one is doing, goes beyond the present.

To be honest, when I heard this, I did not refute it. There is no recognition. I just want to wait for me to three years of this span to the time, I am what mentality. Now I seem to understand the meaning of what the CTO said, but I still don’t approve. You just feel like, at this point, you’re thinking more, you’re thinking more. A little less flighty and frivolous. A bit more sedate, calm, careful.

I’m curious to know what everyone thinks about this. Have to admit that people, if more effort to come, must drill.

The emotional stuff

I broke up with my girlfriend of more than four years, and it was a sad subject. But there is no escape.

It’s like three years of work, little gains, but I lost it to a girl I used to love. Speaking of this, my eyes have been rolling. Really feel good pity. I was fantasizing about marrying her and having kids. Happy together. Have fun together. But, like, it really is like yesterday’s dream.

I can’t deny that I spent almost all of these three years on my work, trying to make myself successful and stronger. Get more. But these three years of work, it seems to be farther and farther away from her.

To separate, I have thought, will not tear heart crack lung, will not be able to breathe, or even dim. No, it wasn’t. It was flat. It’s like, this thing, it’s just gone. So it really passed.

Summary of feelings

I am not qualified to summarize, because, in this respect, I am a loser.

A message about life

Keep moving and stay healthy.

Who would have thought, I’m more than 30 pounds heavier than when I just graduated… “And tears trickled down his cheeks.

Keep reading, keep reading.

When a person feels lonely, even lonely. Reading is definitely a thing that can make you calm down and feel satisfied. It can give you, absolutely not your external performance, but your output from the inside to the outside, the belly has poetry from China!

Make more money while you are young.

In fact, it has always been said that women’s security, from the money, to be honest, men are also. So whoever it is, make some extra money while they’re young. The possibility of financial freedom is up to fate. If not, at least when you’re young, earn as much as you can.

Love life.

No matter how difficult the encounter is, how difficult the setback. Love the world, love the life that you have.

See life as it really is and still love it. Be your own hero!

About myself

Today, I come out social work, just full three years of day

The day after tomorrow, my 26th birthday

No more, no less, exactly three years.

The best gift you can give yourself in the future is a better self. Come on!

Happy birthday to myself in advance. Hahahahaha ~~~

Bye bye ~

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