See circle of friends crazy turn “even if the husband did not get a dime of shares, in my heart, he is still the most powerful entrepreneur”. I’m not new at all, I’m going through it myself, black and blue in a deep black hole. There is a daughter who stayed in hospital for 20 days and came back, she changed day and night, all kinds of debts, there is a silly husband, he started a successful business, but not a cent of the shares. After reading the article, I asked my husband again, will you also get no money? The husband is very disdain of smile: don’t be silly, absolutely impossible, all are brothers, I believe X jiawei.
Yes, it’s the same old story, the so-called brothers, the so-called trust, the so-called integrity. I’m so grumpy, I don’t even want to deal with it with my husband anymore.
I am not the hostess in that article. Her experience is different from mine. I am a headhunter with 7 years of working experience. Every time is a brother is trust, I was slowly numb by him, I began to hypnotize myself is I think more. One day, my husband went home in the afternoon, which was incredible. After four years of starting a business, he almost always went home at midnight. I always quipped that the good thing about being a game industry wife is that you get to own the room. He said that after talking to the CEO, he would not pay any money. He had promised nothing before, and there was no project.
Four years of entrepreneurship, and that’s it at the end. I clearly predicted the result. When the result came, the bitterness and pain were definitely more painful than when it suddenly came. Sometimes, I hated my keen sense of headhunting profession.
I didn’t know what to say to him. All I could do was look at him, sitting there in silence, all gray. He couldn’t hear his favorite daughter crying beside him. My husband has loved games since he was a kid, dating in college, and I never thought I could match his games. What I didn’t expect is that he went to play games before he graduated from college. I like his ideal of “playing games well”. When many people, especially his parents, objected to his playing games, I supported him without hesitation and saw his focus shining brightly when he played games.
With each new game developed, I felt that he was about to succeed. Although I didn’t know what success meant, I felt that he could realize his dream and was really happy. But the game industry competition is so fierce, all kinds of death, really to succeed is not so simple, AT that time I was still very naive full of expectations. Around November 2014, when he was still in 4399, he said he would come out and the company would not do page tour. But he, unwilling, a group of brothers, will soon be successful, the results of the company gave up the page tour, the product will soon be pushed, so many years of products, so many years of accumulation, reluctant to give up.
He started a business with a guy named X Jiawei. He said he was in charge of game design and X was in charge of technology. So they started looking around for investments, and the company’s earliest meetings were held at my house.
At that time, I had been working as a headhunter for more than 4 years, and I was full of admiration for my husband’s ability to realize his dream. He asked me if I was afraid of starting a business. I am not afraid, I have full confidence in my husband, no money, I can make money to support you. On December 19, 2014, the investor’s funds were in place, and the company was officially founded, named as “Guangzhou * Entertainment Network Technology Co., LTD.” to create entertainment, my husband proudly said. Although there are not many people in the start-up and he is the only one planning, it doesn’t matter because he can do everything and he is confident that he can make a benchmark in the industry.
I have been working in a grade A office building. When I saw their business environment, I wanted to cry. It was so shabby that there were only some dark and empty rooms with computers, which I had to share with another company. But I still feel proud, my husband is a game maker, now his own business.
My husband was born to ignore the family, his pay card is in my hand, the company also takes care of the food, he basically does not spend money, so far he thinks it is his salary that allows us to rent two rooms and one hall, sometimes can take my parents out to eat is his money; I did not dare to tell him that I earned a large part of it and his salary was not as high as mine.
I like the self-confidence of my husband, drunk in their own ideal state, I am a man who has sold his ideal for life, I can strive for a man for his ideal is also a kind of happiness, I love my husband, so simple love, the current life is not what.
2 or the husband often work overtime, night is normal time from work, just I also often work overtime in the company, search, work more, he is busy ideal, I also want to pay for the reality and the rent, parents provide for the aged, the future fund and so on, is the most active day we live in the same house, we 6 days did not say a word, he came back I went to sleep, I went to work and he still hasn’t got up. Faced with the empty house and the stress of work, I cried at home for more than an hour. He didn’t know how I came these days.
He does not rest on weekends, I also ran back to the company to work overtime, only his own at home, overtime can also make more money. I was very proud of myself. I thought both of us were workaholics, and we were both trying to make money for our future children. It was a very fulfilling time.
I was always thinking about how to make him take care of himself and worried that he would die suddenly one day. Every time I saw the sudden death of a game developer, I was very afraid. I spent a huge sum of 6,000 yuan to buy him a serious disease insurance. I believe in the law of insurance, buy it will not lose, hahaha. The page game “Jianyu Jianghu”, which ran over 100 million yuan in one month, has been running over 100 million yuan for three consecutive months, and the total domestic revenue has reached 700 million yuan. As the co-founder, project leader and chief planner of the company, I have been awarded a bonus of nearly 100 thousand yuan. Getting entrepreneurial salary, enjoying the “welfare” of entrepreneurs, experiencing the hardships of entrepreneurship, in return for is “generous” bonus bonus!
As a headhunter, I know very clearly that some of those who do monthly turnover of 20 million yuan have more than 100,000 yuan in dividends. From time to time, I will be concerned about when I can pay bonuses. I won’t give up, and finally I really don’t give up.
We were all nearly 30 years old, but we didn’t have a child until my husband and grandmother passed away on The New Year’s Day of 2016. She still held our hands and said, “My biggest regret is that I didn’t see you have a child. You should have a child as soon as possible!” Every time I think of this scene, I will cry. Grandma has brought up her husband with hard work and is looking forward to having a great-grandchild at her age. Again and again, we postpone having children while her career is still on the rise, so she left at the age of 80 with regret. After the funeral, my husband and I said, “Let’s have a baby. We promised grandma.” “Well.”
Soon, in April 2016, I was pregnant with a baby, which was a big gift. I kept saying to my daughter, “Without my wife (my grandma and husband), there would be no you!” We were really poor, and by the time I was pregnant, our family had only 10,000 yuan in savings.
I know very well that if I am pregnant, my headhunting income will be greatly reduced. We are based on performance, and the boss will not lower his requirements just because you are pregnant. Besides, my physical strength is not as good as before, so I cannot work overtime every day. Maternity leave was a basic salary. We were on a very low base salary, and with another child to raise, I was in a state of confusion.
Husband’s project reached a peak around in April 2016, in October, when I asked my husband will penny, and it is only one and half months from my due date, and I’m ready to leave, the home of the deposit is less than 30000 yuan, I’m afraid of children out of what doesn’t even have emergency money, why I can always guess the future, so miserable!) .
My husband said, their CEO said, we will divide, we are all brothers, should have some will have, wait for a moment, now the company is in the rapid development stage, the money earned first used for the company’s project operation.
I asked my husband if he had signed any partnership documents before. At that time, he said the company was small and did not need to sign. At that time I was more confused “now all online peak 100 million, do not sign?” The husband said that nothing, do not need, are brothers, trust. My heart was full of fear, but I dared not say it out, because my husband still believed it and thought I was destroying brotherly feelings. At the beginning of December 2016, the amniotic fluid broke at 6 o ‘clock, and she was sent to the neonatology department for isolation before she could hold her daughter properly after suffering from various pains. Then she began to undergo various examinations and treatments for 20 days, with the doctor calling her every day, all kinds of examination names she had never heard of, and all kinds of confirmed diseases. My whole person all fell into the abyss to climb up, know not to wash face can not do.
Put 10 thousand yuan to go in, did not say to have no money a few days, the hospital calls to urge pay cost, do not pay cost to stop treatment. We are all competitive people and dare not tell the old man. After two years of starting a business, our family did not save any money. On the day of giving birth, we only had 20,000 yuan in hand.
The company is on the track, tax revenue is paid according to the formal salary, the basic salary is also symbolically raised, hand in hand, is not as good as the salary at the beginning of entrepreneurship. My husband told me that as a partner, he should not raise too high salary and should focus on the development of the company. Now many new people have higher salary than him, but this is the need of the company.
I need a little cash flow for my daughter’s treatment, and I want to see if I can borrow it from the office. The husband went back to ask, the CEO said, we also did not get the money, several brothers have had an accident recently, lend out a lot, really can not help, can not borrow. I was very angry, one and two said they were brothers, no money, no loan, even no visit. We didn’t realize until much later that by then, we had already bought a house and a car, and the world was really fickle.
Husband back, is also a variety of sympathy, but the daughter treatment can’t delay, a daughter were born out, at the thought of her so little every day to play so many needles, blood vessels and small, to do the waist to wear (lumbar puncture, you want to so hard thick needle is inserted into the spinal fluid, also can’t anesthesia), the doctor said, has infection to the brain, to overdose, That means that my daughter’s resistance will be worse than others from the beginning of birth, the care should not be careless, once a high fever should be sent to the hospital as soon as possible for close observation, to prevent syncope.
My daughter suffered from intracranial hemorrhage and meningitis, and she may have sequelae in the future. The first time I actually held my daughter was when I took her to an MRI on the 9th day after she was born. I watched her sleeping, and I didn’t know what I was going to raise her in the future.
Every Wednesday can video to see her daughter 1 minute, her head, body, feet are inserted in a variety of needles, every time I cry, now I dare not look back to the previous small video, a look on the cry. Is there a way to come back at the end of the husband said, he gets back to the company a new project, is a large IP, then prepared on the popular TV series “junior iii li, peach blossom”, the film version of the Japanese was his favorite l, he said this time is to find a l endorsement, launched the project, such as advance bonuses, let’s put the debt settlement cash, I’m so excited to hear that. I feel my life is getting better.
Good times did not last long, after a long time, the husband came back and said that the new project did not do. What ghost, toss about for a month all kinds of schemes all kinds of overtime, the reason is speechless, art director said not to do, the project to the friend company to do (at that time called claw swim and husband company is the same investor), but my husband in the past friend company to help with the production, I listen to what ah? Sending my husband over there? It’s an independent firm. Is that a transfer? Who does it belong to?
I asked if there were any agreements signed? The husband say: “no!” I said, “Well, don’t go. It’s nothing. You’re working.” My silly and straight husband said: “after all, yong elder brother to us have grace, I want to help brothers return grace.” Brother Yong is to help pull the strings of investment, ok, and also grace, but also brotherly love, my heart is more and more uneasy, but I don’t like my husband this kind of heavy friendship with a sense of responsibility? So he went to Yonge to help start designing games. Unexpectedly less than a month, my husband came back and said, the project is back, we do it ourselves, do it well, art can do it (what ghost? You can’t do it, and all of a sudden you can? It wasn’t long before, oh my God, what a project). However, the project is responsible for xu Elder brother, Xu elder brother was in charge of the system planning sword rain.
The husband said, X jiawei said Xu elder brother owes a production project opportunity, let him try, you from the side to assist, assist him, help him to make the project. I strongly disagree. “This is unreasonable from the point of view of human resources. You, who have done over 100 million projects, are now assisting your subordinates. Husband comfort me, after all, are brothers, who is responsible for what matter? Own company, can make it, what is enough.
I do career planning for senior executives every day, and it’s rational and clear. Do not know what ghost, arrived at the husband here, reason does not listen to command, I believe the husband, the husband believes the brother. But before long, the project stopped, said not to do, said Xu Elder brother could not take, the project was cut. In this way, the husband’s journey of three lives, really is to do three times, the end.
Suddenly one day, there is a project group quietly established, sansheng iii project group, responsible for by the super brother. What’s going on? What happened to not doing it? All of a sudden it’s on the super brother.
The husband went back to ask the CEO, reply is, we owe super elder brother an opportunity, super elder brother’s project team has only planning, no group, now sansheng just merge, responsible for the super elder brother. I am drunk, this and where to owe super elder brother a chance, leaving 4399, super elder brother went to other places to develop, sword rain are finished to the company.
This is not what an enterprise should do, put on a successful over 100 million project experience, back and forth to give this person that person out of nowhere opportunities. I advise husband, you and partner talk again, this is not the way.
The final result was that sansheng iii produced a completely different product, which hit a new low and wasted the hottest IP of the year. Originally also very happy to be able to take the first opportunity to this IP, was a group of brothers to give the so-called opportunity, do not know the operation of the people, alive to be able to go up the opportunity to kill.
The husband looked at the company’s products, more and more do worse, really can not look down, many times to find the CEO to personally take the project, the CEO replied to the company’s project has been too much, can not set up the project. At this time, it was June 2017, and the CEO proposed to let my husband start his business again, starting from the field of mobile games, and let him take over sword Rain mobile games.
What is the case of sword rain hand tour? This project has been done for a year, and it has been redone. In the words of my husband, I feel that I need to start again, but mobile games are hot now, and the volume of page games is declining rapidly, so the company urgently needs to change. In this way, the husband went to pick up a mess, this so-called opportunity, in my eyes is my husband as a model.
Next is the sword rain mobile tour from a chaos, transferred to the online, with 2 weeks without sleep to do a novice, the next day retention reached 43%. I remember clearly that night, the haggard face of my husband revealed the excitement, he hugged me, like a child excited: “I did it, sword rain hand swim live, leave 43%, can push, can return to the original.”
Others may not know, but I am very clear, sword rain lake is my husband’s child, sword rain hand tour is his grandson, he can let the grandson in the last critical moment to ensure the line, his kind of excitement, estimated that only know the birth of a daughter can be compared.
Unfortunately, this is just his fantasy, he fantasy sword rain river’s lake hand tour can line. Not a few days later, I heard my husband come back, very disappointed to say, sword rain hand tour stopped, not push, art has been out of date, the first staff “borrow” to other projects, so that other projects can still live, the focus of the school flower project.
My husband will continue to stay in the sword rain mobile games, responsible for the development and preparation of the sword Rain mobile games 3.0 new projects, and so on. Listen, again full of hope, and the husband goes to bed after 5am every day.
After a period of time, the new project is almost ready, ready to start research and development, the school flower crisis, said that the project can not be done, need support, stop other new projects, to the school flower kept manpower, the husband’s project was forced to delay the start. After another period of time, the school flower project was in chaos and could not be handled at all. The CEO asked my husband to put down the project and adjust the new flower project. My husband was also ordered to go in the face of crisis. Behind, it is said that the retention of the school flower, pay in the first week is the same period of competitive qingyun formula 2 times, 2 times ah, qingyun formula water was 300 million a month. I’m so excited to hear it. I feel like it’s really gonna happen this time.
At this time, the debt of the family is also more and more, and the money borrowed is also spent. The balance is getting bigger and bigger, and the money of sword rain is also the time to share it. I let my husband talk to the CEO again.
The CEO replied, “There will be, the money will be distributed sooner or later, will not lose your share.” I feel wrong, I say with husband, that is when cent, our body right now owe debt already many, every month not enough money return card number, want to use borrow bai to return.
Finally, the CEO to reply is the school flower water to 100 million, on the penny, I listened to meng forced, this sword rain money why to wait for the school flower water ah? However, after I gave birth to a child, there were many things at home, and my husband was too busy to go home. I did not think carefully, so I continued to wait. Come to think of it now, that’s because the money of jian Yu had been divided up long ago, not to my husband at all. In February, my husband talked to the CEO about opening a new project. He thought 3d mobile games were the trend and suggested starting a 3D project. The CEO replied that the company had too many projects at present, so it was not suitable to open new projects. My husband has prepared the project direction and design content in advance, but the project cannot be approved for the time being. Besides, there is no 3D accumulation in the company for the time being, and a new 3D team has just been introduced.
Coincidence coincidence here, not two days, and a project quietly set up, 3DMMO project, by the super brother responsible for. What the hell? Didn’t you just say no new items? Why super elder brother can stand, not say not to do 3D? Why?
On this matter, the husband looked for the CEO, after a period of twists and turns (here omitted a pile of shielding words), arrived at the opening of the time, talk collapsed, the husband was dismissed by the company. The CEO seems to have already designed the answers to the various questions he might ask, and the CEO says he hasn’t been paid either (after the sword rain, has he been paid?). , Jianyu is losing money on the whole (720 million + running water, including overseas 100 million + running water, 120 million profit, all of which are losing money? What’s the bill? , and the company is not currently set up my husband wants to do the project, quit.
Husband he said to himself, as the first leader of the company, he participated in the development of the game at the beginning, and the profits of that game are still supporting more than 500 people in the company. However, he said the CEO said that the game had already been paid a dividend, which was close to $100,000. This is all the dividends my husband received from starting a business together in 2014 until he left. However, my husband cut his salary to start a business, so he didn’t get a raise for four years. Moreover, because of the company’s cost control, the five insurances and one housing fund were halved.
As a headhunter myself, the monthly salary of any project manager is twice as much as that of my husband, and he has not had over 100 million project experience. That 100 thousand yuan is less than a year’s salary difference. Okay, my husband is completely disillusioned, but I guess the right ending, what’s the use?
I had never seen him so depressed. He was always so righteous and kind. And now he was like a wounded animal, he said, sorry wife. I hugged him and he cried. I only saw him cry when grandma died. I did not cry, I patted him and said: “is not agreed, you start a business, I support you.”
When I began to sort out the data, MY heart had expected that my husband could not get anything, but I still want to work hard, I do not allow others to bully my husband. I found a lawyer and consulted a lot of friends who started businesses and made investments. Everyone said that this situation was very passive, but I really felt sorry for him at the moment. What can I say to a man who has calculated every step?
The husband start a business all don’t make money, I also dare not slack off, god is not thin to the diligent person, I earned a little money at the beginning of the year, looking at my cow force of the husband unhappy, I took out ten thousand dollars, took the children and her husband to a trip said for several years of travel. In yulong snow mountain peak, I was out of breath, said: “husband, we start a business again, I am not afraid of poverty, you really can not, I support you.” Husband, I haven’t smiled for a long time. I smiled at that moment and merged with the sunshine. I was very happy and happy.
Now is August, has passed 5 months, and her husband to talk about the entertainment of the matter, he always said, young, believe, if the letter is right, can blow a lifetime, the letter is wrong can only blame themselves too young. The tuition fee may be a bit expensive, and the time and youth from 14 to 18 years will never come back, but I begin to think that this may be a blessing in disguise. At least now I have recognized it, and I will be relieved sooner rather than be kidnapped by the stock.
I don’t know anyone in the technical circle, and I don’t know much about technology. All I know is that my husband is a game planner, capable of design and training. He has managed a team of 100 people and developed many games. He always like to show me his game, where fun where good, in fact, I have not been able to understand and will not play, is watching him dancing to demonstrate, I am very happy.
What I can do is to take good care of the children and earn more money by myself. Maybe one day, I can say boldly, “Come, husband, I will support you.”
I can’t write articles, I can’t do anything else, I can only recruit, you can call me if you have any recruitment. I also don’t know how to deal with unreasonable people, so I can help my husband write an advertisement post. If your product needs planning, or your team needs planning training and education, please contact us. — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — — why suddenly so long to write this, because you know that x JiaWei had to buy a house, or district, and buy these, before our children were born. The monthly payment is more than 40,000, and the down payment must be more than 3 million. That means good brother, good startup.
There is still love out there, thanks to the best friend who lent me the money to pay off my hospital bill.
At 3am on August 2, 2018