Without the pressure of buying a house and a car, I got married and stopped lecturing. In this year, I went to work to keep fit and travel. I felt much more comfortable in my life. There was no great pressure in my work. In fact, ten or twenty years in the goose factory is also very good, high wages and good welfare treatment, do not have to consider the economic pressure, the money is basically endless. Of course, a lot of students have asked me, 40 or 50 years old still writing programs will not be eliminated? In fact, when we are in our 40s or 50s, we are always standing still and will be eliminated wherever we go. We do not change and do not get promoted. The company will definitely eliminate us.
Now recall roughly experienced three confused stage, the first is sophomore when to do porters in Zhongshan village, found that they have no skills, can only find some hard work to do a job, later on the programmer this road of no return. The second time was when SIX enterprises in Changsha collapsed and faced unemployment. Many of my classmates gradually began to buy houses and get married, but MY money had to be sent back to my hometown every month to repair the house. Once I went to attend a small party of my classmates, and my wife was there too. I was very self-abased at that time and dared not speak at all. Then I came to Shenzhen. Although Tencent did not have a side when I first came to Shenzhen, I found a good job and began to teach positive energy at that time. Back in Changsha, I actually complained about why other people’s parents could afford the down payment, while I had to pay for the house in my hometown. I had only living expenses left every month, so how could I afford to buy a house and get married? But in retrospect, it is because of those failures and pain that I have a deeper understanding of life and develop my attitude towards doing things. The best thing about the years for me is that the person I once dreamed of missing day and night became my wife. Of course, in this process, we should thank those who are willing to share knowledge of the predecessors, we are actually standing on the shoulders of giants, today’s small achievements. The third time is now, I hope I have more thinking can cross over.
Life is easy to endure poverty, to endure riches and honour is difficult; It is easy to live in toil, but difficult to live in idleness; It is easier to bear the pain than the itch. If these unbearable wealth, idle, impatient itching, can tolerate, calm, endure, that must be a very deep culture. May indeed be too idle, will feel confused. So I’m going to look for something to do in the New Year and see if I can share some more Android performance optimizations. The first is that I really miss the days when I had things to toss about, and the most important is that I like to share with others, which can also realize some value of life. What I have improved this year is the code of Q, Tencent Video and Micro vision, and I have learned a lot of useful things. There is indeed a lot of treasure inside. What’s more, I have made some progress in meditation practice. Now I can feel what I am doing, thinking and saying almost all the time, and I can keep a state of immovability when encountering anything. In fact, life is so through the essence of things, this world will not have trouble, anxiety and pain. I still insist on exercising in the gym of the company for half an hour every day. I read a book every week and take out the things I didn’t understand before every day. Although I am confused, I am gaining strength every moment.
Share some insights from this year and hope we all have something to think about. Nothing in this world is permanent. Fame, wealth, status and money are all changeable. We should not be hindered by these things, and these things do not bring more happiness in nature, because desire is infinite. I was happy when I got three thousand yuan in my first internship, but gradually I got hundreds of thousands of yuan a year, millions of yuan a year, and basically I didn’t feel anything. One of my classmates bought the stock of the company, which went up sharply in the middle of the year. Every day, I hope to go up a little and go up a little all the time. Of course, I believe that no one will say that I bought the stock and I hope it has been falling all the time. However, there are many things in this world that can not change, such as inner peace and happiness, whether walking, eating, talking with people or typing code, we can always be happy, and these things are not attached to material things tend to be longer, if we can learn this is also the acquisition of happiness samadhi. No matter encounter any painful and difficult thing, can face with the best attitude to resolve. Of course, the premise is that we need to reach a certain level of material, at least food, rice, oil and salt can be guaranteed, of course, I also believe that some people can eat spiritual food when they do not have enough to eat, this should be a very high level. We very closely associated with the world, we sent out from the heart or in behavior information, affects the process of the world, and because we are a whole, the world will give it back to us, with all sorts of multiples, in various forms, each time to give something back to the us, who all don’t escape, we made everything is brewing in the outside, The world will eventually give back to us. The moral sutras can become private because of their selfless evil. Good is like water, water all things without dispute. Tencent is the company with the best and most complete management system I have ever experienced. For example, our boss never asks us to do anything as a leader, but always guides and leads us to advance. Almost half of the leaders at the group leader level in Tencent are women. They may not know much about technology, so they will put their positions at a lower level to serve everyone and win resources for everyone. I shared my lectures for years, and while I didn’t make much money at the time, life fed back to me in a different way.
Because of my experience of failure and pain, it is a pity that WHEN people complain to me about the difficulty of finding a job and losing it, I feel sad. Although it is difficult for you to find a job, unemployment will not affect me, but I hope you can be a spontaneous combustion type of talent, obviously you can have a better choice. But there are a lot of incombustible people in life, so I often convince myself not to convince others with their own ideas, but it is easy to convince yourself is very difficult, to the back may I become a bitter gossip ji Ji. But I also think that maybe some of my classmates will change because of my experience. Since I choose to do such things, why not think in a good direction, because most of life is combustible talent. Of course, many students told me that they would come to Shenzhen to visit you in a few days after the interview. After one year’s hard work, I finally joined Ant Financial. Thank you very much indeed. So I can only make sure that what I say is first true, and second what I want to say, and you have to think about whether it’s true or not, because everyone’s experience is different.
I made many mistakes in the process of growing up, and everyone are likely to make these mistakes may also make later, I have seen the company collapse, was forced to leave and unpaid wages, before that I also serious doubt yourself, how so unlucky to meet is not regular enterprise, in retrospect is ability and the attitude of the problem by themselves. Anyone can complain about it with his mouth, but it is very rare to resist complaining and solve the problem with heart. People like to say that this is not good and that is not good, but forget to look at themselves. In the life of many students said a set of ji ji slanting, but never make up your mind, people say bad at all is self-deserved. In fact, the truth of doing things are the same, are inseparable from the heart and physical cooperation, heart is how much determination we can make, this is very important, only thinking about making money for life, may let us go a distance but it is impossible to let us go happy and long. I was able to give lectures for three or four years without making money because I wanted to achieve others while achieving myself, and because I like to share with others. There is also the need to match their physical strength, some students are I want to leave this miserable place want to enter the factory, but always can not move, physical strength does not follow up is also a pity. The reason why BAT can become so big and its employees have good salary and welfare benefits is actually the cooperation of heart and mind. Mental strength is that we have good vision and values; mental strength is that we introduce excellent talents; physical strength is that we have a good management system and KPI incentive. Of course, it does not mean that everyone can not squeeze into BAT. The choice depends on their own ability and ideas. Good platforms determine our lower limit, and some platforms determine our upper limit.
A couple of years ago, a lot of students asked me if Android was dying and I wanted to do something else, or if I had read your article a few years ago, I wouldn’t be in this mess. Now several years have passed, still want to change the industry but do not know what to do. This year, I am honored to be the interviewer of Tencent. Although I am only a junior interviewer, I have really exerted a great influence on myself. Meanwhile, I was rated as a five-star employee, and the company also provided long-term incentive stock rights. In retrospect, both in changsha, and in shenzhen, whether in a few tens of thousands of people of big companies, small companies or oneself are the prominent one, speak, of course, this is just a little bit Huang Po sell melon feeling, just want to say is to engage in any industry no matter in any environment routines are about the same, can’t change the place here is also not line, Like complaining eyes see is not good, where will tie up their own. A few years ago, I said that there would be more and more rich people and more and more skilled people, but I can’t say it’s not me. If we just complain about the industry, if we just complain about our colleagues… You can read my article from three or four years ago. Many students feel that why do you always have to say chicken soup when writing articles and lectures? Chicken soup and success often talk about how to pursue wealth and fame, and I often talk about the hope that we do not pay too much attention to these things, learn to understand the nature of life and things more love life. Therefore, those few words can only be guaranteed to be true and guaranteed to say the most, as to whether it is correct we should have their own thinking.
For everyone to study I summarized two characters, one word “idle” “proud” word, idle is idle, many students tend to be a passionate enthusiasm is bold and unrestrained, but when it comes to can stick of classmate but few, if we can persist in a year or two, even half year effect will also be unexpectedly, the key is to cultivate a good habit, The benefits will last a lifetime. Many students study with a critical attitude, and the code you write is low and crash. You can imagine the results if you study with this attitude, but in fact, even if you look back at my videos of 17 years, they are not out of date. What I used in BAT today, A lot of it was three or four years ago, and many interviewers are still asking about it today. Not only in study, life and work, but also hope that we can strictly experience and do these two words. For what we can achieve high, I also summarized the two words, one word is a word “saw” is the “heart”, I didn’t come to shenzhen before I don’t know, does the development of big cities, it’s no wonder the enterprise life cycle of changsha so short, I don’t know before into tencent turned out to be such a big company to do management, A lot of things we do not experience it is difficult to deeply experience, so in life and work, we should cultivate their own learning attitude, constantly to broaden their horizons. It is only in recent years that I have a deep experience of “mind”. When I was in charge of people in the past, MOST of the time I would find fault with others. What is more fatal is that SOMETIMES I would have opinions on some people, and even be unhappy with leaders and bosses. Now looking back, I don’t feel so unhappy. I just live in my own prejudice. Most people think about their own interests, and it is difficult to make concessions for the overall situation. When a person mind family, will never for some trivial things to quarrel with family; When a person mind team, he will never go to embezzle the company’s property; When a person mind the world, he will never do harm to others not selfish things, and greed will often make a person from the height of the fall.
Explaining the knowledge in books seems to be easier to accept and more rewarding. However, not everyone can speak the truth thoroughly, very afraid of their own no noble knowledge, but also afraid of their own experience and understanding insufficient, but like to do a misleading students opinionated people. If so, you might as well close the door and type code yourself so that you don’t get people wrong. It’s just that people in life are impressionable, and I want to be someone who can influence others.
For our young people’s biggest asset is time, the most cheap or time, this stage of our fault tolerance rate is higher, even walked some detours, life is not a great for us, but we know a lot of things is bad, but I do not want to use action to correct, it has been only one place repeat wrestling, Even if we know a lot of great truth can not pull back the depressed life.
Finally, I wish you all good dreams come true in the New Year