It takes 12 minutes to read the article, which is a long one. It is all personal real experience and feeling

In the process of north drift some friends ask: when to return home? What’s your plan for the future? I don’t know how to answer those who haven’t come to Beijing. I might say that if we major in computer science, we have to go to the big city to get a good job, but actually I don’t know what it is like to work in Beijing.

Now that I have been in Beijing for five years, I gradually understand why I came to Beijing. Many people on the Internet say that because this is a place where superior resources are concentrated, the education and medical conditions are good, but it sounds that the conditions are not enough. I want to share with my real experience why young people must come to big cities.

Inner Drive (Personal experience)

Everyone wants to get better, when I grew up has always been a don’t love to express their hometown’s words not HuiLaiShi, but I want to make more friends, to express themselves more, I always want to change, until go to college, I found a perfect opportunity to run for monitor of the class, everyone to introduce myself, from inner drive, when I offered to: I want to be the monitor!

Fortunately, at that time, no others, so I as a monitor, any change is difficult, must break the comfort zone, during the monitor when I encountered unprecedented challenges, to deal with many things every day, others may go to play basketball, play games, I want to take part in activities, organizing activities, sometimes eat dinner, I actually very lazy, At that time the heart was extremely rejected and had to accept.

Because this is their own choice, to tell the truth, I was not good when the monitor, during our guide put forward to run for the monitor again, I think it may be against me, finally there are other classes change monitor, I still monitor, so when four years, four years of college monitor I learned what:

I realized the difficulty of change and realized the benefits of change, my heart became strong, when I was the monitor during the guide of the ridicule, I have to bear, exercise their own heart, in fact, he has been a kind of hate iron does not become steel, for me very good.

I know the responsibility, would you like to do some things that no one else in the class, that will I do, this time let me learn if you want a man to help you or let him do one thing, so thank you finished you have to, not to say thank you must material, but have to let others know not white help, so the next time somebody else would help you.

I slowly learn to control your emotions, laid the foundation for the communication with others in the future, in the work meeting to discuss the problem will be noisy, ultimately tears, keep calm and in control of their emotions is critical, even if others say really wrong you’ll think of some way to get him to understand is wrong, not noisy, this no benefit to solve the problem.

I feel the change will bring the huge benefits, graduated to parents or elders will be advised me to one’s deceased father grind, take an examination of civil servants, then again from inner drive, I want to independent thinking, I want to understand the meaning of learning, I don’t want to take an examination of civil servant, because it directly see my future, I want to go to big cities, I want to know the world is what kind of, I had to see for myself how the world really works, so I came to Beijing.

The influence of environment on people

Everyone needs to acknowledge the impact of their environment. If everyone around you is playing Dota every day and you are developing apps every day? There are people reading books on the subway. There are people who stay late at work and learn skills after work. No matter how hard you try, there is always someone better than you.

In such an environment, I don’t want to be worse than anyone else. At present, I am responsible for important tasks in the project team, and I also write articles and develop applications in my spare time. It can be said that such an environment affects my progress.

If I go back to my hometown, I may have a car and a house, I will definitely relax, work early every day and have nothing to do, slowly lose the competitiveness of the workplace, can only be forced to work every day, until retirement, but our generation who does not yearn for freedom, once people lazy for a long time, waste.

I am very grateful to the competitive environment here, let me understand the meaning of hard work!

Knowledge can change your fate.

I have known since I was a child that knowledge can change destiny, but I have found in the past few years that knowledge can change destiny more easily here, and efforts will be rewarded. Better companies will have a perfect talent promotion mechanism, as long as the ability reaches, you can raise salary. There are many such companies here.

I encountered a lot of problems in the process of work, and I improved my ability by constantly solving problems and upgrading. The key progress was summarized as follows:

Powerful inner: without a strong heart I can’t go now, I only depend on oneself to solve technical problems for many times, don’t know if you have the experience to the loneliness, only by constantly learning and solve the problem, there is no short cut, glad I don’t have any time to give up, I solve all the technical problems by learning, now again encounter problems can calm analysis.

Gradually improved communication ability: communication ability is not the ability to speak more, but to express their ideas in the shortest language, is a kind of summarizing ability, why we must have communication ability? Effective communication skills will make others more likely to communicate with you.

Sometimes we have and cattle or big V communication opportunity, if you can’t express clearly through the brief description, is likely to miss the opportunity to gain resources, for specific examples of how to communicate with people, if is to want to ask questions, then the problem must be through close scrutiny, already had tried through search engines and other methods, this communication will become more efficient, In general, don’t ask questions, people will be disgusted.

If it is to introduce some friends need big V, provide resource class, don’t say or admire you about for a long time, said a lot but there is no key, just say what you can provide resources, what kind of resources, brief introduction to what they are doing, if get the resources don’t forget to thank the help of others, can be a small amount of red envelopes, Don’t forget to be grateful.

Communication aspect said more, because really encountered too many communication problems, questions also have art.

What skills are most important? As the saying goes, a cat that can catch mice is a good cat, that is to say, it is good to be able to solve problems, and the ability to solve problems is the core competitiveness. Only by constantly learning knowledge, and absorbing knowledge several times more than others, can cognitive differences be generated, which is the essential difference between people and people.

People like me

I come from a rural family, but not only are many business leaders originally from rural areas, but also many people with financial freedom are from rural areas. What I want to say is that before I came to Beijing, I knew very clearly that people like me could only make achievements in big cities.

Now I am more firm, do not personally experience you will not know what is hard work, DO not know how much difference between people and people, more will not know the more efforts the luckier, knowledge really changed the fate, such examples are countless. Surround yourself with great people and you’ll get better and better. Surround yourself with people who are worse than you, and you’ll get worse and worse. It’s true.

Say so many summarize, for graduate students, young people must was desperate to big cities, because young did not worry more, can make, if there is a room in their hometown have a car, find a job not thought out to see will be more difficult, but, in turn, if feel bad day at work home in a big city is not the local tyrants is no problem?

In addition to more job opportunities, what is more important is to improve my cognition. If I make a wrong choice, NO matter how hard I work, I will feel difficult. Choosing more than working hard is the best reflection of cognitive difference.

Tomb-sweeping Day is coming. I wish you a happy holiday. I don’t know what you are doing during the holiday.

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