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The opinions in this article only represent my humble opinion, if there is anything against you, do not like to spray
As a member of the post-90s generation in the front row, I remember that when I was a child, I played with my peers, and the contact between them was basically by Shouting or writing letters. Now a mobile phone can connect everything, even the students who have been separated for more than ten years can be gathered in an instant. This point, I have to accept the power of mobile phones.
At that time, we did not much difference between each other, at the end of each year in addition to parents or teachers talk about someone’s home, good grades that comparison, it is not easy to find the other topics, and in the age of the students, and even after entering society, slowly will find, each into a stage, we circle always change, and in the past Circles are constantly shrinking, degenerated, and even forgotten.
Such as: elementary school, every day to play together, since junior high school, have a new classmate collective, the former classmates will contact less, gradually went to high school, and found that the junior high school students gradually less contact again, and when he went to college after, found that many high school classmates is lost again, and when their recede after student’s aura, and found that the university students I don’t know Ben anymore, you know
Even oneself from one company to another company, even if no words don’t say every day before colleagues, if not under one roof, less can often touch each other, in fact, this also can’t say forget each other, just because, we each other no intersection, of course, to some extent contact reduction is understandable, in the process, from a group of people to us A batch of people, in part to the people, a few people, finally also found that the rest is just a person, in some way, need a man to go after all, I think, this is a kind of growth, our circle in gradually reduce, or check was conducted in the existing network, difficult to break through the ceiling, is becoming more and more diversified and can’t find the new world? The answer is clearly not
Once, my understanding of the circle is limited to around, stop at peers, this was especially true in the age of students to the ivory tower, always feel that the ivory tower and outside the circle happened has nothing to do with yourself, and this idea actually already entrenched, parents as a child the teacher always tells us, adults, children shouldn’t interfere. It also to some extent, limits the own thought, often as a result, some learned but not complacency, is unlikely to nip in the bud, let alone what save for a rainy day, at that time, every day WeChat in addition to chat, play QQ, three point one line of life, and more people are teasing around how to scrape a younger sister, topic seems to be in addition to the game is a girl, is what some other relatively rare vibration Exciting, kidney hormone soaring things, will not be the same as now, take the initiative to go to the community, pay attention to and understand some commercial things, as much as possible to their own knowledge output, then, basically aimless, just get along
I remember, when in this state until junior year, I just woke up slowly, in fact, I think everyone heart like a burning fire in the winter, is not willing to tend to be present at ease, just, sometimes, in which body, want to change, but don’t know how to change, in the contradiction and the reality to carry on the struggle, if lucky break out, find another A start. In other words, I think I was completely satisfied in I met one of the more positive circle, in my opinion, each university has many resources inside, but often can be found early and take advantage of, is really not easy, really should pass, when the real life, not a lack of beauty, but a lack of eyes to find beauty
To me is the greatest influence the online teaching C language hao teacher, there is the xue-song song teacher taught you how to learn microcontroller, as he is a very good person, read the book, such as see its person, since his book I can’t on the shelf to discard, content is also very bottom spirit, also not contrived, he is not just technology, and personal character is wonderful, as one Electron field higher-order great god always maintain a humble state of mind, and mainly for small white users, no matter how many simple, can patiently answered him, if you want to know when he maintain different levels of thousands of people in a large group of, if everyone ask him a question, basically he also need not eat sleep, at a time when I came into his 57th group, it is conceivable that Good character, good reputation, there is no doubt that his microcontroller board sold how good
Actually, I feel really bad person, he is not satisfy the light thinking about bad enough, but to harm people willing to help others as him, achievement and One Belt And One Road, this return is, like the snowball, if think carefully, circles there are many such people, oneself rich first, and then will try to drive the people rich, and there is more to yourself Rich, if you think about a lot of the knowledge gurus that you get and the gurus in other fields, open doors and so on, that’s the epitome. So in peacetime, or to save more character, good words three winter warm, harsh words hurt cold June. I always feel that no matter where I stand, don’t forget who I am. Thirty years in the East of the River, thirty years in the west of the River, mo youth is poor, when people return home, you boast of the day
I think everyone’s got a chance. Behind some of the teachers and friends, of course, also pretty big influence on me, most of these are online, my teachers and classmates I don’t know with them, but because of the connection of media medium, whether by buying books, or by adding QQ group, I can’t find that in the real life around playing chicken blood up state, but I but can be found on the Internet
Found that I know a person, also is not necessarily want to meet is called knowledge, by reading, listening and so on all is a good way to read this talented people can deepen the cognition, the IT technical books, Turing books most of them are very good, of course, also some good books, whether technical books or non-technical books, later, I will also share one by one. Nowadays, Internet education is much more active and quality than offline traditional education. If you want any resources, you can’t find them, but you can’t think of them. Now there are often more choices, but you don’t know how to choose, and you are struggling with which one is better
I found that there are simply too many excellent people on the Internet, there is no comparison, there is no harm, and those excellent people, the cattle of various circles, the valuable quality of the body is also me this kind of rookie to learn. I think it’s better not to keep in touch with awesome people. Of course, as for how to contact awesome people, I think the most direct way is to mix in circles. If you just stick to your own ideas and act like I’m the best in the world, then you are really a frog in a well.
As we all know, before college, everyone is very clear goals, more than ten years studying, is to chances, but also tend to be our teacher give us draw a pie, blow bar as long as the university, is heaven, think how to play, how to play, a lot of people (including myself) for professional career is a face of vacant, Let alone teach us some lessons about investment wealth and so on
We are all the chanting of that knowledge is wealth, is power and some other inspirational proverbs, and never tell you, how to make knowledge into money, sometimes, we equate wealth with money, because it often behave more intuitive, but in fact they are not entirely equivalent, money is just a part of wealth, it is just as our daily life It’s just a tool for barter.
In fact, we can not blame our teachers, because they are professional knowledge, they are not businessmen themselves. I think, most people do not know what they are suitable for, someone to give you what advice, fortunately, no one to give you advice, in the face of numerous numerous professional, basically see which pleasing to the eye, just fill in what, or is the opinion of parents and teachers, will not consider so much.
In my opinion, before entering a certain field, I can listen to the advice of the old professional drivers who have already worked. They all say that the longest way to walk is the routine of the master. Predecessors plant trees and descendants enjoy the shade
Or take the initiative to join some circles to understand, use search engines more, the so-called internal affairs do not understand baidu, foreign affairs do not understand Google, are a good way. For example: through reading books, add QQ group, technical community forum (domestic Denver gold, SegmentFault, blog park, CSDN, Github, etc.) a lot, and now what Jane book, stackOverflow and so on abroad and some wechat public number, absolutely do not ignore the importance of community
Maybe at first will only see, oneself always about those terrible to look up to, just a bystander, rather than participants, also there is no output, personally think it’s because I haven’t been input, or has some Buddha mind, I think we can try, even if just began to read is copied notes or not
Sharing with others is a process of exploration. As time goes by, combining with life, you will gradually form your own unique thinking and inspire yourself. Even if your cognition is wrong, it doesn’t matter, because there are many enthusiastic keyboard teachers on the Internet to give you feedback, and this feedback is a kind of harvest.
The various gods in those circles, such as Luo Pang, who sells knowledge, express humorous and solid content, which is inseparable from his previous reading and in-depth observation. He is not only grinding and breaking the books he has read, the things he has seen and the people he has met, and then output them again after independent thinking and calculation. In addition, he is more than us people have a sensitive sense of business smell and the ability to take advantage of the situation, in fact, think about those powerful people, there are common
I think can not two ear not smell out the window, occupied in writing code, looked up and don’t look at day, or a fully into the world of the code, actually oneself and town next to the forge of the blacksmith there is no difference, I think it’s always want to keep an empty cup mentality, the more I now identity, do you have how far, can walk how far
I will think of examples, we now surrounding those COINS in a great god, and in those days people struggling block chain, we always, or don’t understand, bubble, still can stick to, insist on his own judgment, but any investment is a kind of game, game’s chances of success, but it depends on what they have knowledge of financial, really decided to yourself What is the probability of winning the game.
For money, our habitual thinking is to put it in the bank, which is the limitation of thinking, because we think it is safe, in fact, many fields are the same. I think, must meet more circles, upper how to hook up with old drivers, how deep the lower bottom small white (I am also a small white), and know a great god, and we also don’t have to look for his DaoLao, we can get to know them, directly or indirectly to the public, such as his personal WeChat zhihu, weibo, the Denver nuggets, making, Jane, and wait a WeChat read the book Will find their footprints, and often read the articles of those big players is a kind of dialogue, do not deliberately flatter, take the initiative to leave a message or reward points small, make some feedback, and then generate interaction is a good way to hook up.
In fact, I think, we are often not like others, but why to get to know them? That’s because it depends on what kind of person you want to be, and most of the time, our brains, when confronted with this kind of question, tend to short-circuit and say, “I don’t know,” or give some broad, vague answer, right
For example, casually say THAT I want to be a person who keeps turning knowledge into money, a master in the investment industry, a master of technology, an expert in a certain field, etc., of course, having this kind of desire is far better than saying that YOU don’t know, but how to achieve it? For example, the first one, you can turn it into as many cash channels as you can think of, whether it’s hardware or software
If the two as a simple comparison, the hardware part is visible, tangible things, such as some stars by brushing face, cheating, show career line, rub heat and so on to make money, while apple fans sell kidney grab iPhone and so on are hardware
, of course, for those, like I this is not a rich second generation, the officer the second generation, also have no background, only figure, since the imaginary himself is not rich the second generation, then try to do rich second his dad, to motivate yourself is often can’t count on the hardware, and software are often invisible, incorporeal, often need to undertake secondary transformation, he is the intangible assets
For example: technology (this is not just referring to IT, in fact, any skill that can add value to others is called technology, dirty sex is a kind of technology to some extent, but IT belongs to the hardware category, hahahahaha, don’t think about IT, I am a very honest person)
Writing output, Open Zhihu Live, live q&A, audio, video and other content output services that are valuable or interesting to others can be realized directly or indirectly. If careful discovery, now a lot of people a lot of platforms are doing this, and it is really a national interaction, even the square of the old lady, half a year old point of the cute baby are live, in fact, do not mention the network red live, with gray glasses, think is that kind of vulgar sell sex walk kidney, really not so
You will find that, both those who live, willing to perform, has two brushes, the grassroots counter attack marry Bai Fu story will be more and more beautiful, whether individual or third-party platform is in a parade, see who can absorb more powder, make traffic, each platform, various to the user, customization push, make your consumption creeping is to buy buy buy , and bought also want to buy, mattress wool virus type, involuntarily spread, I feel, or to maintain reason, do not dry mouth Shouting, in buy chop hand, the right hand is looking at prosthetics, we are playing but those businessmen
As for individuals, more and more people are willing to go public and practice themselves more and more commercialized. There is no upper limit and no lower limit. In short, the bigger the exposure, the faster the gold will be attracted. Let’s face it, owning a business is always a Wolf in sheep’s clothing.
It also have no what, very normal, as to face a lot of platform, existence is reasonable, lin2 zi3 da4, what information must have, I usually go to ask what they want to get more, then selective screening, search, do less bound by the platform, endless brush information, for fast food type of garbage information formatted, actually found just throw away the cell phones, All of a sudden before liberation, hahaha
Regression beginner’s mind, in fact, for he wants to become a what kind of person, often is a fiction is the thing, however, if our great god set an example of the power, the purpose is very clear, although not be the appearance of other people, even, it would be impossible as imitators forever is fabricated, accusers, it is impossible to replace the original fake, to some extent Because we want to be the great god in pursuit, we can continuously seek the pole and take the limit value of ourselves. Once we reach a certain tangent point, it is also ok if we keep parallel or even surpass it.
Although sometimes, on how much people, it is others, not yourself, your own is also no relationship, even a thumb up, meet by chance, even if held on the great god of the thigh, what does not mean that, cooking chicken chicken is still, a great god is still a great god, and so I think, only two slap parallel flap in the same rhythm, production Life resonance, will be enough to ring, so as to be able to have a long talk, laugh, so, some god is not willing to reply to the small white is reasonable, ha ha ha
And the underlying small white because young, always so energetic, learning to encourage each other, make circles, of course, not promiscuity, wide net, want to avoid invalid social, you can with a social purpose, as not to get married for the purpose of be in love is play rascal, if just mentioning the pants, just boot, mutually responsible attitude, once encounter cheating philandering feelings of man Scheming, unfortunately, although slightly clumsy, but often more clear
Such as: do you want to learn the IT technical skills, affirmation is to find communication group, such as software development, can be selectively added that kind of atmosphere is a very good group benefit, but also find slowly, not bubble group for a long time, for the beginning, or can be, if you want to through the group to improve technology, then eventually find what is not.
Then again, don’t ignore it, just be moderate, because someone might share something nice that you didn’t know you had, and once you see it, you can use it. But I think if you want to keep the social relationship between people lasting, often the equivalent exchange of things will be more lasting, the popular point is to do less hand, think about what I have worth the other party to take? Instead of constantly demanding, we should exchange what we have with others. This is not limited to tangible assets or intangible assets, such as money, information resources, spirit, etc., so as to maximize the establishment of an equal relationship.
I think everyone has their own standards and the way of doing things, but also has the filtering mechanism, for me, general advertising party, wechat business and so on all is can turn a blind eye, of course, you will lose, I won’t deliberately to spray the other party, what make some shielding behaviour such as delete, because other people also have other people’s way of life, I feel or want more respect each other Heavy, can choose not to disturb the invasion, it is ok
In fact, for own circle of friends, is about, who pay attention to you, anyway, I think I’m really not that important, can take the initiative to chat with his one hand can count over, more is their learned to warm himself with his left hand, right hand, friends often brush presence, prove I’m still alive, that’s all, for the mass, to praise your circle of friends set, or Sent a dynamic, later additions comment points like, in fact, I can speculate that they have been chosen to screen, as for how to avoid getting up early to open your eyes, less brush circle, and open some radio listen more?
You can set some group information shielding, message do not disturb, do not disturb mode, you can also set the wechat privacy inside the circle of friends update reminder closed, to a certain extent is to avoid their habitual click discovery, and frequent brush circle of friends
However, the current dynamics of moments are not completely real dynamics, just like the toutiao you care about, which is not toutiao, the photos posted are often the same photo “cheat “, which is entirely due to the four great Inventions of Asia (Chinese photoshop. Hahaha)
I am the kind of person who is not willing to give a person difficult, if you bring to others is not what fresh, then don’t make trouble to the person, I was rather bubble in Jane mess about in each community groups such as book, also don’t want to friends, actually, is main or feel oneself have nothing to send, from once handsome in appearance, with “cap” to now, already had the affair Always come to the age of love vows, but now I think a good love should be a long stream, mutual respect, mutual appreciation, and the premise is bread is big enough, not crave to support a fat man, enough to eat on the line, hahahahaha…
For example: Zhihu, Ximalaya, etc.? I think people in every stage, more or less there is anxiety, I remember a teacher in my circle, said this sentence,” if you feel, you are lost, there is no reverse, then change your money into tickets.” The idea behind this is that if you go out and touch more people and things, your horizons and thinking will be opened
Actually, vulgar way is to make circles, more to their industry and those of different areas, learning a lot of people make up the own shortcomings, to other people’s ability to maximize the grafting to shift to yourself, our advantage, can assign, others advanced marketing idea, for example, some investment strategies, the great spirit has a problem, he is how to solve And what are the ways and channels through which he constantly improves himself? Even he walked heart style of writing, we should neither, copy completely fetishism, but rather to extract useful information, combined with itself, packaging, packaging factory, oneself also is a good product, we are all sold out, cabbage price or yellow gold, it depends on the bull market or bear market, itself is determined by the market, since still need to improve His cognition, so that their fish wood head as soon as possible to understand, the real realization of thinking and getting rich, rather than the mouth braggart
For a long time, I always feel both eq and IQ, financial, are quite in a hurry, in the middle of 16 years, I started to record writing, until now, most are programming knowledge summary is given priority to, of course, also seldom go to write, such as soft, and I myself also is very the chicken broth, instead of reading other people’s stories, and doubt that life, it is better to do more The point is much more true. Of course, it’s also useful to read other people’s stories, which can give you more or less inspiration
Which, however, the female users is absolute, but often some finance grassroots rich class of programs, such as business IT is often not so high, this also to some extent, that woman is a perceptual, while men are rational, and her husband, in turn, harmonics is to “pay”, constantly working hard plow, although expensive for men, but in fact, is the true “difficult” person,, ha Ha ha ha, to stand up to women’s purchasing power, baby milk powder money, across three mountains, but this can not be generalized, now girls are more and more powerful and independent, even worse than men, I mean the probability.
For useful information, and some interesting to the public, I has always been to the net, of course, focus on the most farmers or some peers yards, a dime a dozen, actually many, is very similar, can really every day more cyclical original output, in addition to heart I admire or admire, anyway I am can’t do that, you can achieve two more a week, and And every heart to write, it is ok, day more this is the need for strong perseverance.
Lot number are reproduced others instead, the content of the so-called porters, whether for powder or other purpose, I think, or want to be thankful, whether original or reproduced, translated, or at least share are open source, and no one force you to see, in fact, sometimes, even if you a thumb up is also the author of a kind of encourage, said at least you have , more often, if the authors do not go to a forwarding, reading is hard to go up, not to mention many people take the initiative to share out, so now, no. There are also many male authors prefer to write to the community, also don’t want to spend the energy to write a male size, itself has been very time consuming, writing content and layout is also a very energy consuming.
If you’ve tried to do it yourself, and you’ve been bombarded by some Internet keymen, and still stuck with it like an idiot, you know how hard it is to be an operator. I think, I go read selectively, premium content go public, cardiac output can judge it by himself, and now I will go to listen more, see yourself some content about investment and other aspects of the blind area, or too ignorant, to learn from those who bad garment asked, deepen cognition
I am willing to work with one heart, and never mean what they know that fur, I think to share technology, life, getting rich is a very meaningful things, before, I have been to ignore the power of the community, at the time, also feel not intentional to manage, expend energy, however, a person can walk faster, but I firmly believe that a group of people will go further, so, I am I have built an itclanCoder knowledge planet. Of course, THERE are also wechat QQ communication groups, but I feel that wechat QQ group information is too easy to distract my attention, and there is no record of historical information, there is no precipitation, and I believe that all kinds of wechat public accounts are paying a lot of attention, so the information is easy to be submerged
For the purpose of building itclanCoder, the original intention is just for pure sharing, with personal growth and practice as the core. It is also a kind of iterative supervision of myself by forcing output instead of input. If you think it has the purpose of making money? Can I set is free, if you are willing to play small reward points, I’ll work harder the output of the, of course, now has a lot of cash channel, in fact, as long as careful, found that many circles of the great god, whether circle powder or circle money, the realization of the ultimate purpose is to direct or indirect cash, I think it also have no what, spend some money buying experience, insight, is worth it When you can take a shortcut, there is no need to get exhausted. Just like flirting with younger girls and young men, you can buy routines and get the beautiful woman back to the right husband. Isn’t it much faster than reading the golden Vase plum by heart and watching soap operas? I think it’s worth it, hahahahahaha…
As for paying for knowledge, I think investing in my brain is permanent, just as bankruptcy is temporary and poverty is permanent
In my opinion, no matter what you learn from others, as long as you use it, the same maximum output, to believe that it is possible to outdo the blue. In itclanCoder circle, everyone is a teacher, starting from the front end, more than the front end, you can also ask questions to me and other circle friends, anyway, as long as I know how to do, I will do, in the circle, regardless of age, but reject any loser, complaining, cynical, full of train running, not practical trouble
, of course, I will not importune others into the circle, you into the circle, or into the circle, I have been, you leave or stay, I will not leave you, although I lost, but is very handsome, also not is what a great god, the fighter jet in the rookie, but want to become a great man, but also want to fly with the others, I think, to join the circle, or knowledge, looking for a group Weave, join the group, so as to meet a better yourself, you are willing to come? Click to join itclanCoder knowledge planet directly, so you can communicate and share with your heart
