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2021 annual summary, looking forward to 2022.

2021 is a special year for me, in which I got acquainted with a reading software. Some of the books have pictures of animals, people, and Turing books on their covers, especially Manning’s books. The books introduced this time include general books on psychology and philosophy, as well as books on learning and workplace communication. The advantage of paper books is to look at some comfortable, electronic books read for a long time eyes tired. But reading e-books is more convenient, you can read them anytime and anywhere.

About why I will introduce psychology, philosophy books at the beginning. Here’s a brief explanation. Proper chicken soup for the soul is good for physical and mental health. In fact, in schools, basically do not offer this kind of subject. In today’s exam-oriented education, more attention is paid to the study of theoretical knowledge related to entering school, rarely involving psychology. Therefore, I recommend psychological books to enrich our spiritual world.

After several revisions, we finally decided to optimize it again, and this time it was more comfortable in layout and cover image. As my knowledge is limited, it is inevitable that there are shortcomings. We hope that we can learn from each other and make progress.

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As for the books I recommend, some of them are books I am reading now, and some of them are recommended only after reading the whole book more than twice. The cover of every book is not easy to find material for. Ha ha, I stole a lazy, use a reading software on the introduction, will continue to update. Maybe one day I’ll find my own pictures and make some covers with powerpoint. Don’t hold your breath, though.

1. Psychology and Philosophy

When it comes to psychology, we must talk about the big three. Freud, Jung and Adler are three famous psychologists known to us. You should familiarize yourself with such books. It’s not what you learn, it’s how you use what you learn.

When I got to know the courage to be Hated, I became interested in Adler’s individual psychology. In this article, I will introduce Freud and Adler’s books. There are many interesting thoughts and ideas to explore.

Two songs of courage, The Courage to be hated and the Courage to Be Happy, are presented in the form of dialogue between a young man and a philosopher, written by Japanese writers Miichiro Sishi and Shiken Koga. Every time young people visit a philosopher’s study, they will have different experiences and doubt that the philosopher is a nihilist. However, under the fierce ideological exchange and collision, the dialogue between the young man and the philosopher seems to refute the other side. In fact, it is not only the collision of ideas, but also the discussion and perfection of psychology and philosophy.

Here are two books I’ve been reading intensively recently, the Courage to Be Hated and the Courage to Be Happy. I personally feel, not to mention immediately make myself happy and so on, but from the new direction of thinking, as if there is a guiding star guiding me to progress.

The courage to be hated

Introduce: a deep-set abased, incompetent and unhappy youth. After hearing a philosopher s claim that the world is simple and everyone can be happy, I challenged him. The two began to think and debate back and forth. Night after night, the young man began to wonder why “the so-called freedom is to be hated”. The problem isn’t what the world looks like, it’s what you look like.

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The courage of happiness

Three years after our last conversation, the young man has quit his job as a librarian and become an elementary school teacher. However, when he appeared again in front of the philosopher, he had experienced a lot of destruction from reality (in the educational work) and had despairing of his original ideal. Youth: Adler’s ideas have no meaning in the outside world. Philosopher: You misunderstand Adler’s ideas. Philosophical talk, intense collision of ideas, start again…

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3. Inferiority and transcendence

From Kishi Miichiro’s “Two Songs of Courage” to Adler, gradually in-depth understanding of individual psychology. Adler is the founder of individual psychology and the father of modern self psychology.

Introduce: “inferiority and surmount” it is the individual psychology classic that modern society human must read. The book is based on the viewpoint of individual psychology. By Alfred. Adler through in-depth analysis and study of each person’s life in a series of inferiority, inadequate plot. It provides an effective way to overcome inferiority mentality, turn inferiority into power, pursue superiority and realize harmonious development between individual and society.

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People can do anything

An important part of Adry psychology. To quote Mr Adler, someone has to start. Even if others don’t cooperate, it’s none of your business. That’s my opinion. It’s up to you to start, not to worry about cooperation. All troubles are rooted in relationships.

Introduction: Man Can Do Anything: Adler lectures on Psychology is considered one of the more accessible and widely read psychological works. Social interest is at the heart of the book. Stories and lives. His philosophy of imperfection, the way of life, reflection on human nature. Go deep into each person, each paragraph of life, each story, and shine a more true side.

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Freudian Psychology

The book is divided into three volumes. The first chapter: “Dream analysis” the second chapter: “Sexology and psychology of love”. Speaking of chapter two, hey, hey, are you interested? Chapter 3: An Introduction to Psychoanalysis

Introduce: “Freud psychology” classic trilogy. Introduction to Psychoanalysis is Freud’s magnum opus and is regarded as the standard introduction to psychoanalysis. The Interpretation of Dreams is mainly about Freud’s dream theory, which systematically expounds the essence, content, working principle, dream interpretation technology and so on. “Three Treatises on Sex and Psychology of Love” is the best work to explain Freud’s main research on human nature and human behavior motivation.

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6. Personal Perception (essence)

The following is my understanding of reading a lot of psychology books some feelings, also in a call to see a lot of questions about the meaning of life, some feeling.

Most chicken soup for the soul is full of nihilism. Ideal is full, reality is cruel. But it is this nihilism that makes human progress.

In a small way, people don’t know enough about themselves. On a larger scale, lack of awareness of the real world.

The world is full of things. Microorganisms, animals and plants, human beings; The Earth, the solar system, the Milky Way, and even the whole universe, as well as the unexplored unknown stars and so on.

If there is no chicken soup, the human body needs nutrition how to supply, then what is talking about lasting life. Of course it’s just a joke, just a joke about your survival.

Ask yourself, what is the purpose of life? Everyone has, at one time or another, thought deeply about why we live.

Then I saw a piece of news today or a small story to illustrate it! The following is illustrated in dialogue form.

Teenage girl: Doctor, how long do I have left? “Asked the girl eagerly.

Doctor: You see that all your bodily functions are normal. Don’t worry. Relaxation is good for recovery.

Teenage girl: Doctor, I want to hear the truth.

In fact, the girl had seen the article about drinking paraquat on the Internet… But the doctor didn’t notice that the girl had her cell phone with her when she came in.

Doctor: don’t believe all the nonsense on the Internet. You still have a good chance of survival.

Teenage girl: Then why am I in the ICU?

At this time, the girl is obviously not as full of sunshine and lovely, has realized his mistake.

Doctor: Admission to ICU only requires further observation and screening.

After a conversation, the atmosphere was delicate. The doctor saw the girl’s face change, full of helplessness, despair, sadness and regret.

There’s a phrase for paraquat. I give you time to regret, but I don’t give you the chance to live.

The doctor remembered a novel he had read that year, and it was roughly as follows: But after a while, she suddenly said something to Han Li’s great surprise: “Brother, is it true that one cannot become a fairy practitioner without linggen? I want to be a monk like you!” Turning back to the ink ring, has become a face of sorrow, voice is full of hope.

Then the doctor suddenly thought of something, just said a few words to the girl.

Doctor: Do you understand now why people want to live?

Young girl: Alas, people are too fragile. It’s good to be alive, I really want to go back to the past, carefree!

Doctor: go back to the past really can carefree live?

Flower season girl: the girl at this time seems to understand what, burst into tears.

Staring out the window as white as jade snow, slowly falling, until the melt. There was no cold feeling. Many years later, the doctor thought of the young girl he had talked to, and inadvertently fell into a deep thought…

It is really not easy to live for yourself in this life. You will find that in a colorful world, people play all kinds of roles. When you were a child, you were the child of your parents. At school, you were a good student in the teacher’s mind. When I grow up, I enter the society. You are the object of exploitation in the eyes of the capitalist class.

Because of these relationships, you wonder why people are alive. On the other hand, I have a lot of concerns, such as parents, relatives and friends. That’s why I said at the beginning, this life is not only for yourself.

Instead of living your life, you can do things that you enjoy, are interested in and have meaning. Within the bounds of moral law.

To quote Mr. Adler. Someone has to start. Even if others don’t cooperate, it’s none of your business. That’s my opinion. It’s up to you to start, not to worry about cooperation.

All troubles are rooted in relationships.

How to save themselves, see is very simple words, in fact, can rise to the degree of philosophy of life. The world is simple, and so is life.

First, be clear about whether you know yourself (introspection).

Second, learn to accept yourself and feel happy. My guess is that the inferiority plot may be caused by excessive inferiority feeling, which leads to feeling unfortunate and wanting to save themselves. Or maybe they lack the courage to face life. Unable to face courage, unable to pursue happiness, unable to make the decision to do it.

Live in this moment, is the most true to yourself. The meaning of life is up to you. If you deny yourself, talk about how to save yourself.

Here are two books I’ve been reading intensively recently, the Courage to Be Hated and the Courage to Be Happy. I personally feel, not to mention what will make me happy immediately, but it has given me a new direction of thinking, like a guiding star guiding me to progress.

People live in a constant pursuit of satisfaction, in other words, a constant pursuit of happiness.

The pursuit of happiness, on the other hand, can be philosophical and has no end. It seemed so ethereal and full of nihilism. But you need to embrace yourself, make it concrete, and do it. This is my favorite saying. Instead of obsessing over the meaning of life all day long, we should do more meaningful things with our limited life. To you still confused in 2022. Who is not glass heart? Just some people know that the outside of the heart wrapped in a few layers of sound insulation sponge, heartbreak a time, no one heard it.

Finally, I suggest reading some books of psychology and philosophy to comfort my empty mind. This is just for your reference.

Second, programming books are recommended

Read the notes: Developers or DBAs can read the whole thing, and it’s definitely rewarding. Other workplace staff, directly read the first PPT production, there are some gains. Emphasizing that powerpoint is as important to developers as it is to DBAs, this book is a recommended programming book. As a matter of fact, don’t Let powerpoint Hold you back is recommended in its own category.

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Introduction to computer software industry. Learning SQL language, the most significant results. Later, you will find that the final optimization basically touches on SQL statement tuning and algorithm optimization. I didn’t recommend any programming language directly at first. As long as you master an object-oriented language, it is relatively easy to learn other programming development languages.

Most of the recommended learning books are about programming and DBAs. Of course, other books will be introduced as well, and learning powerpoint in the workplace will give you an extra skill. As the saying goes, skills will be one of the highlights of your resume.

1. Git version control management

See this animal on the cover, it looks like it has something, so I mentioned it at the beginning of this article. For those interested in programming, Git Version Control Management (2nd edition) is a must-read. Suitable for members of the development team who need to do version control, but also useful for developers.

You may wonder why this young man recommended books in the first place. Do you want me to program deep as the sea, from integrity is a passer-by? This book is worth taking time to read. Based on the version of the control, from the principle of analysis, so that you can understand more easily. Be a good technical friend at work, and say goodbye to the loss of locally created articles. And you can use Github and Gitee’s Pages services for free to build personal websites.

Here is my personal suggestion, cooperate with Github or Gitee (faster access) to study, learn (BAI) to learn (PIAO) excellent websites.

Git is a free, open source distributed version control system used to manage the development of the Linux kernel. Originally intended as a transitional alternative to BitKeeper, Git has become a mainstream tool for distributed version control. Git Version Control management (Version 2) is a great guide to mastering Git. It is divided into 21 chapters that cover how to use Git in a variety of real-world development environments. How Git interacts with SVN repositories, that is, SVN to Git transformations. Git Version Control Management (Version 2) is a great read for development team members who need to version control their projects, as well as for interested developers.

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MySQL database

You are advised to read MySQL in Simple Order, MySQL Troubleshooting Guide, and MySQL Technology Insider (InnoDB Storage Engine). “Inside MySQL Technology (InnoDB Storage Engine)” this book is suitable for the accumulated experience of development, DBA administrator reading.

In most cases the preferred storage engine is InnoDB, but other storage engines such as MyISAM, Aria, MEMORY, CSV, SEQENCE, etc have specific usage scenarios. You can check the documentation on the official website for more information. When studying MySQL, many people have a question: does MySQL support full-text indexing? Answer: yes, but you need to choose the storage engine, such as InnoDB.

Introduction: “Simple to understand MySQL” this book covers a wide range of beginner self-study reading. The MySQL Troubleshooting Guide is a great guide for advanced reading and helps a lot in your work. MySQL Technology Insider (InnoDB Storage Engine) is written by senior MySQL experts in China and recommended by database experts at home and abroad. As a domestic monograph on InnoDB, the first edition is well received, and the second edition is a comprehensive supplement to MySQL5.6. This book from the perspective of source code depth analysis of InnoDB architecture, implementation principle, working mechanism, and gives a lot of practice, can help you systematically and deeply grasp InnoDB.

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The final recommendation is ** High Performance MySQL Version 3 **. High Performance MySQL edition 3 is a highly recommended book for MySQL databases.

Summary: In the third edition of High Performance MySQL, the authors have updated a lot of content. Comprehensive coverage of the performance, features and tools improvements of the new MySQL and InnoDB storage engines. Learn about MySQL’s new features, storage engines, partitioned databases, triggers, and views. Improved master/slave replication, high availability, and clustering. The high performance of MySQL running in the cloud. Optimize advanced query features such as full-text indexing. Benefit from modern multicore cpus and solid-state drives. Explore backup and recovery policies, including the latest backup tools.

See this book cover and the rest of the text seems to be incompatible style. Don’t be surprised. I can’t find it. Their simple production with PPT, also used the recommended book “don’t let PPT drag back”, live to learn to use.

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3. Oracle Database

I have read several Oracle database books recently, but only the following two are recommended to be read gradually. A look at the entry to master, a little gimmick, ha ha joke. Ho, a look at the content, actually ok. Good Oracle primer, the title is just a gimmick, there is real material.

3.1 Oracle from Entry to Mastery

Mainly based on Oracle11g to explain, is a beginner beginner and advanced tutorial. Suitable for entry level, there is no such thing as a book can let you enter to master ah, the title is actually a gimmick.

Introduction: Oracle From Beginner to Master is mainly based on Oracle11g. Starting from the beginner’s point of view, with easy to understand language, rich and colorful examples in detail introduced the use of Oracle11g database management technology in all aspects.

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3.2 Oracle Practice Development Classic

Based on Oracle11g and Oracle12c comparison, suitable for advanced DBA or developers with actual requirements to read. Personally, I recommend the original Oracle practice classic, often what we need is the practice, more is to deal with the usual DBA management work.

Introduction: In the era of big data, Oracle12c came into being and changed for cloud computing. Oracle Practice Development Classic is based on Oracle11g and Oracle 12C versions. It tells the main content of database development through rich examples, easy to understand language and quick illustrations.

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4. Introduction to Java development

Introduction to Java is an essential book, “Java Core Technology Volume 1 (10th edition)” basic knowledge. As for the book’s Swing techniques, you can just skip the reading. Perhaps due to the current market situation, the majority of Java development positions are oriented towards Web development, and Android is also popular in the early years, slowly shifting to Kotlin.

Introduction: One of the most influential and valuable books in the Java field. With the Java programming ideas, widely acclaimed. A good book to read is Java Core Technologies Volume 1 (10th edition)

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This book can be optionally read, Java Core Technology Volume 2 (10th edition) advanced features.

Introduction to theJava Core Technology Volume 2 (10th edition) can be seen as a supplement to the basics of the first edition with some advanced new features.Book covers

5. Don’t let powerpoint hold you back

Good cover = clicks

Before I, use PPT only know a hard stack of points, add fancy special effects. After reading this book, don’t let PPT drag you down, you know that there are so many routines in making PPT. The abdomen has poetry qi from China. The more you accumulate, the more knowledge you have. If you read my blog, you’ll notice that there are several articles on the cover that use the matting, folding stickers, and curvy backgrounds introduced in this book, and I’ll include one at the beginning as a reference. The same can be done with cool short videos and vlog covers (good covers = clicks).

Introduction: For professionals, how to design PPT quickly, accurately and beautifully is particularly important. The author of this book, Teacher Nuoyiqiao in the long-term PPT training, well versed in the workplace PPT pain point. The book combined with the characteristics of the teacher’s lecture, summed up the fast and easy to use, greatly improve the work efficiency of the PPT lazy secrets. This book is helpful for professionals to expand their thinking, summarize experience and improve the efficiency of powerpoint production. Every use of PPT in the workplace, use it, work efficiency greatly improved.

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Recommendation of workplace books

1. Special talkers talk like this

I read it twice, and each time I had a different feeling. Communication skills in the workplace are definitely worth learning and exploring. This book is from Japanese writer Moiko Ono. It can be used as a reference book for workplace communication, but it will not be completely applicable. After all, it is based on the local national conditions for research. Of course, human communication skills are complex, but for the most part they are the same.

Introduce: how to refuse others, do not hurt harmony? How to praise people to the point? How do YOU keep a reminder from turning into a criticism? How to avoid the truth as a polite? How to make accurate and reasonable suggestions? Maybe you are confused or even anxious about these questions. Maybe you’ve tried to learn complex communication skills and rules, but you still don’t know how to say them in specific situations. Don’t worry! The 141 cases in this book will be based on the real situation, the right and wrong interpretation of the right and wrong statement, to help you understand, learn to use now!

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2. Learn to communicate

Whether in the workplace, family, society, communication is everywhere. It is important to master effective and positive communication skills. Proper communication skills can help you achieve happiness, but to what extent, you need to practice them yourself.

Summary: This book brings together some of the most basic communication skills. Although they are presented in condensed form, there are enough examples to practice so that you can start practicing the communication skills you want to learn. This book will tell you how to communicate, not how to think about communicating. Pure theory is introduced only if a theory can quickly help you understand a particular communication skill.

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Adult world no easy two words

Adult people’s world is not easy, after reading deeply feel. Get up early and go to work every day, I want to dry out the world; Every day after work, I’m at the mercy of the world. One of my favorite sayings is that instead of thinking about the meaning of life all day long, it is better to do more meaningful things with limited time.

** Who is not glass heart? Just some people know that the outside of the heart wrapped in a few layers of sound insulation sponge, heartbreak a time, no one heard it. Finally, I suggest reading some books on psychology and philosophy to comfort my empty mind.

Introduction to theAuthor: Lao Yang’s owl. 25 stories with strong resonance, covering all aspects of learning, growth, youth, career, love, friendship and family love. I’ll tell you what: this is what happens when you get fucked. Teach you how to: the trivial into a peaceful day. To you with your transformers and your shoddy engineering. May you find your own contentment in your broken life, and may your rising life be worthy of the vagaries along the way.Book covers

Other books

1. Zeng Guofan’s Letter

With history, Zeng Guofan’s life is full of legend. A person who was thought to be a stupid kid has led a wonderful and positive life step by step. His letter to Zeng Guofan had a profound influence on later generations.

Introduction: Zeng Guofan has the reputation of the first official in the late Qing Dynasty. Although the improper handling of Tianjin Teaching Case was reviled, its influence was greater than its fault. It does not affect our learning of its essence. In particular, zeng Guofan’s Letter to his family has a posthumous influence on later generations, which is a good book to read for sublimating oneself.

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2. One Hundred Years of Solitude

Every time you read, there is a different harvest. Here are some suggestions for understanding the context of the book to help you understand the meaning behind it.

Introduce: “one hundred years alone” it is the magnum opus of magical realism, described the legendary story of 7 generations of buendiya family. The rise and fall of macondo, a town on the Caribbean coast, reflects a century of tumultuous history in Latin America. The author shows the combination of reality and fantasy incisively and vividly, becoming an important classic literary masterpiece in the 20th century.

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conclusion

That’s a lot to read in 2021. This time, I introduced more than 20 books through the year-end summary. Some books are still being read, so I didn’t introduce them. Topics include psychology, career, and programming. There is a lot of information and some personal feelings after reading the book. How you make use of what you have learned is up to fate. Abdominal poetry qi from China (classical song Dynasty poet Su Shi). Finally, for reference only.

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